December 1st 2009
Search For Stammering Cure
Anybody who has to live life with a stammer will know just how much of a hindrance it can make what fluent folk see as straightforward jobs. Making a phonephone call, ordering a drink, going out with chums and attending a job interview can be very hard for folks who stammer or stutter.
I’m one of these people who have had to endure the affects of stammering. I am now very happy to report that I have been smooth for the last ten years and life has never been so good. I was never ready to accept my stammer in spite of what many other so called stammering experts said. These people wanted me to stop fighting and to realize that I would live with the stammer for the rest of my life. In their eyes if I accepted this fact it’d be a lot simpler for me to cope. These experts are fluent folks and it is straightforward for them to point out.
Through my life I have attempted to boost especially in the areas that I was not happy about. For me stammering was the ultimate problem in my life and i was certain that I would continue my search for a stammering cure for the rest of my life. There wasn’t any way I was going to ever accept it. Whenever anyone says to me a particular thing can’t be achieved, I always think of this as a particularly negative approach. I’ve now decided to attempt to avoid these negative type people as they’re the ones who are feeble and I do want them to have any influence on my life, as they can simply if i am not very careful bring me down to their level.
I found stammering to be an exceedingly maddening problem. At times I could really speak quite well, for example after I had drunk quite a lot of alcohol. I was able to talk well to one person but not to another. For a number of years I couldn’t work out why this was. To find some answers I attended speech therapy at various points in my life. Sadly these people didn’t have the mandatory info to help me. My search for a stammering cure would have to continue in a different place.
My advice for anyone who has a stammer is to never give up or accept your stammer. This is in a way accepting second best which is exactly what I did when I had a stammer. I had to accept second best in my work, social and even love life as having a stammer made me believe that I could do no better.
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